| My grand father[mom's dad] had 14 daughters and 2 sons[ from 2nd 3rd wife, one of each], my Grand mother who the first, had 4 daughters with 0 son. Zen, you know it is not the woman who determin the gender, man does. later after I was in high school, town people told me my grand father had 8 woman inc. 3 wifves he support financially. 5 woman was mistresses. I may have that DNA, yet I did not have chance to cultivate it. people saying I am very much like him in his character. A year before Korean War, he was killed by north savages. I am going to side tract. #1, you are the winner, because you did not marry by match maker and had 2 years of time to get to know each other. #2, it takes tremendous love and understanding, to keep marraige for 50 years with same person, therefore I give you my hand craping. You are in USA, no need to desire to have the boy, with my experience, girl is better. I have one of each. My high school principal had 7 daughters and one son on 8th child. I do understand how you feel. #3, you are wise man as I believe, you have grand son, same as son. I like to say to you, you have good marriage compaire to other Korean couple. Say thanks to your wife!!! | |