As usual, you are very right I must say. I believe mutual respect!.

1. The impact of estrogen. In animal studies, estrogen appears to help control body weight. With lower estrogen levels, lab animals tend to eat more and be less physically active. Reduced estrogen may also lower metabolic rate, the rate at which the body converts stored energy into working energy. It's possible the same thing happens with women when estrogen levels drop after menopause. Some evidence suggests that estrogen hormone therapy increases a woman's resting metabolic rate. This might help slow weight gain. Lack of estrogen may also cause the body to use starches and blood sugar less effectively, which would increase fat storage and make it harder to lose weight. -WebMD

2. Most weight-loss programs can help you lose weight at first. But you will lose more and have more health benefits if you can keep with it for a longer time. You need to find the right balance of eating and physical activity that you can keep doing or a program that works with your lifestyle.

Are you ready to make changes?

Before you begin treatment, decide if you are ready to make the lifestyle changes needed to lose weight. Losing weight and keeping it off can be hard. Think about successes that you had before and how you were able to achieve them. -Web MD

3. Fancy health club has nothing to do with the matter of expensive fee and/or whoever frequents there, either young and old, white and yellow or skinny legs and fat faces. What matters most is your determination of continuity in doing so for long time.

4. The size of the 3rd leg of males has nothing to do with sexual appealing toward their counter part, but the sweet talk and tolerance of males upon woman's rough and rude arrogance for the sake of the couple's peaceful relationship. Female becomes man while male shrinks to woman in their nature after their menopause. Because man loses their testosterone and gain estrogen. In the meantime, women's testosterone become dominantly active against the weaker of their original feminine sex hormone which is estrogen.

And therefore, to the contrary men can no longer treat their wives as slaves, as you claim, rather women handle men as their servants instead. That is the course of nature. I have never seen husbands do the way you describe likewise, I mean lowly. They are usually the tamed cats or dogs at women's disposal.