The old timers in this site may remember what happened in this site after that episode. I can feel the pain all over to read your writing, and understand the hurt, so I will try my best easy that pain and go to next page in our lives cont. This is my point of view about Sewalho; 1, fdjAccident can happen to anybody. How we respond to that is important point. I wrote to here how I was angry and we must do something, all the professors in US net worked and requested the Korean government. 2, I wrote to President Park G H, that pay the one million to family of the each victim, and two million to the family who did not find boody, because they will live night mare rest of their lives to wonder what happen to the child. I did not f/u after what the government did. She should take out the $$$ from emergency fund account, time is essence here. What we should learn from this this; 1, the education system should modify to child's independency rather than blind compliance with rules and regulations. No US highschool kids will stay their seat when water is coming up to their floor, no matter who say what. they will come up to deck and jump out of ship. these is human nature and instinct. 2, The Captian of this ship should save the last life, and gown with the ship in the water. If I was the command at that time, I would kill him without court process, no need to explain why. this will prevent the same episode in the future. The navy people do not need order from the president to save our son and daughter from drawn and die. This is my point of view. Please, rainbow, try to see the situation from different view, and heal yourself from the pain. I know you have very sensitive good heart, but past is past, one should focus to today for the better. I hope this my few words will help you. You are wise man I know.